Deceptively simple, listening – really listening – is seldom easy. It is a skill that demands curiosity, consistency, and self-control.
Try this: turn a ring, watch, or bracelet into a powerful talisman that will instantly focus your attention and bring you a bit of good luck without anyone else noticing.
In Italy, one client’s antique ring (a treasured gift from her grandmother) is the trusted talisman she counts on in high stakes, high stress situations. It’s a secret reminder to tune-in and really listen as she consistently does these 6 things:
Pick your talisman. At the start of your next conversation, focus in by secretly running your thumb or finger across your bracelet, ring or watch. Keep it there while you pay close attention and convey the two messages everyone wants to hear: I see you. I hear you.